Thursday, January 17, 2008

Girl On Girl Action...why?

A very good question for the professor...



Here's what Ladythrills has to say on the subject...

Why women fantasize about women

There are myriad reasons why women fantasize about women, but the most common of which can be found below.

Why women fantasize about women #1
It’s acceptable
In today’s society, where we’re consistently saturated with images of sexy and sexual women, it’s common for all of us to look at each other in this sexual way and feel an attraction to one another.

Acting on those feelings is up to each individual woman alone, but the fact of the matter remains that if you tell a man you think another woman is hot, he’ll get excited, not offended. But if he did the same, most women would get turned off.

Why women fantasize about women #2
Stuck in sex rut
Sometimes, a long-term relationship can result in boring sex and this can easily lead a woman to have a wandering eye. And sometimes that eye hones in on women and not men.

More often than not, we don’t imagine that having sexual thoughts about other women is considered cheating or even wrong. Add to that the fact that most women check out other women and not men, and you have yourself a whole lot of women who are eyeing each other.

Why women fantasize about women #3
Women are attractive
Many women care about being stylish and taking care of themselves, so it’s easy to understand why other women fantasize about women. It’s intriguing to watch a woman put on her lipstick in a café or flip her hair to the side.

Women have many more attributes to admire than men do - soft skin, makeup, hairstyles, clothes, shoes, shape - so it’s no wonder that we stare and study each other; sometimes with a desiring eye.

Why women fantasize about women #4
Media encourages it
While lesbianism used to be relegated to pornographic movies, nowadays, it seems that women are making out with each other on reality TV, on TV shows, and in mainstream film.

This is where women fantasize about other women. It’s easy to wonder what your attractive girlfriend would taste like, or how a certain female celebrity kisses.

Why women fantasize about women #5
They’re fantasies
For most women, imagining themselves with another woman will remain a fantasy and will never be realized, so it gives us a sense of safety knowing that our private sex sessions with Angelina Jolie will remain in our psyche.

As well, when women fantasize about women, more often than not, they don’t fear that these fantasies will consume them. Most women who secretly desire other women are actually content with their heterosexual relationships, so there’s no apprehension about thinking about kissing other women.

Women fantasize about women

There’s nothing new about women wanting to be with women; it has gone on for centuries. But thanks to mass media and an abundance of sexually charged ads and programming, our brains can easily imagine the touch and taste of another woman.

Living out your fantasies is in your hands; you have the option to go for it, or to sit back and engage in the thoughts alone, but whatever your decision, there’s no doubt that women fantasize about women, and there’s a good chance that one has fantasized about you
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Lots of wisdom in that blog, but that leads to the next question....what's in it for us guys?

Speaking only for myself, (and I've researched this subject VERY thorougly), I can only say that I find any woman in a state of arousal to be very erotic, and it inspires my own state of arousal.

So, if a woman is in a state of arousal for another woman? Or even more than one?


Hey! Do the math!

1 comment:

  1. Anonymous12:05 PM

    uh...great pics! where are they from? got more? :-D

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